REVIEWS FOR “WHERE ARE YOUR KNOTS?”

Just as we need instruction when we are young to learn how to tie our shoes, we also need guidance on how to unloosen the knots that accumulate over time and keep us tied to worn out ways. Dr Finkelstein’s book does just that. Its a wonderful primer to understanding why we are stuck in our lives and helps us to untie our knots so that we are free to live the life we dream of.
— Linda Arbus, L.C.S.W.
What’s (k)not to love? Dr. Finkelstein has distilled 30+ years of wisdom as a psychologist into a simple yet deeply profound way to understand what causes our (k)nots, the ways we may unconsciously hinder ourselves in life in response to old painful experiences. Dr. Finkelstein provides a clear roadmap to begin undoing those (k)nots, which allow us the possibility to live a life free from what is holding us back. “When you begin this process, you can start to imagine turning “nots into why nots,” a line from Dr. Finkelstein’s book, which exemplifies his clever wordplay and the beautiful simplicity of his wise counsel.
— Tracy Robin, LCSW, Associate Provost for Student Health Services at The New School
At a time when as a culture we are dealing with sky high numbers of people struggling with anxiety, depression and trauma, Dr Finkelstein’s new book provides a straightforward roadmap for understanding some of the invisible knots that hinder many of us from functioning well. The concept that our past experiences influence our present level of functioning is brought to life by the clinical examples covered in this easy to read and clever book.
— Lynne Kipnis, Ph.D, Clinical Psychologist
Dr. Jerry Finkelstein, PhD, elucidates the process of psychotherapy for people exploring the possibility of learning more about their inner selves. With an engaging, witty voice, Dr. Finkelstein takes the fear out of exploring the unknown, piquing readers’ curiosity and excitement. It’s an invaluable guide for both the novice and those seeking to learn more about the power of psychotherapy.
— Sarah J. Person, LCSW-R Psychotherapist
Dr. Finkelstein’s, “Where are Your (K)nots” is a gift that illuminates the neglected and nagging knots within us all. Bringing together a lifetime of clinical experience, we are given a clear roadmap to understanding the self and healing our hurts. I am excited to give new and current clients this book to help them understand the therapy process Beyond the therapy realm, this book is for anyone curious about understanding themselves and others!
— Yasmin Mohabbat, M.D., Child, Adolescent and Adult Psychiatrist
“Where Are Your (K)nots” is clear and concise. It simplifies the often overwhelming task of trying to make sense of the origins of suffering. A helpful text for clinicians and patients alike.
— Hannah Goldman, PhD, Clinical Psychologist